Leaving London

I am leaving London to Singapore and thereafter Shanghai for work reasons. Post-Yves London time has been difficult, but it is the city I am attached to the most. While looking forward to an interesting time ahead, I can’t help missing London even before my departure.

Join me on 19th Feb, Sat,@ Grace Bar (http://www.grace-bar.co.uk/location) 7:30 PM till late.

- Welcome to bring friends
- If you cannot make it, drop me a message so I can update my contact book to keep in touch.
- Visiting me in Singapore is highly encouraged :)

 

 

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fun days in London

BBQ day
 
为了兑现我宣传了许久的烤肉,
为了对得起伦敦难得的好天气,
还有那些抛弃我去布拉格享乐的人们,我们要在伦敦玩的更开心。 
 
我家的那小院子竟然装下了18个人,
每人平均5磅钱–见过这么廉价的烤肉吗!!!
多谢senwei等人的帮忙,和无可比拟的持家之道。
还有,liwei竟然从纽约杀回来了,没人相信他是真的回来了,他就是来看女友的。。。
 
 

 
 

 
 

 
之后大家纷纷离去去看欧洲杯赛。
我拉上Maria去离家很近的一个公园走走。
  

 
在公园里,有个小牌子上面写着很美的句子 “Life is eternal, love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and horizon is nothing save our limit of sight” — 草译过来“生命是不息的,爱情是不朽的,死亡像是天际的地平线,不过是视野的极限罢了”

 
我们进门的时间是公园锁门的时间,
所以不出所料的我们要爬墙出去。
Maria 一看就是好孩子,从来没有上树翻墙过。费了点劲儿才算过去。
我,常犯了。

 

A Week off in London

 
这一周走了好多好多路,
这一周吃了好多甜食,
 
 

 

 

  my cute funny cousin, he is alway 12 years old!!! never stop laughing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A friday night out

 

 

 

 

 

慢慢学习好好工作好好享乐。

慢慢学习同时管理更多的事情。

下周会很忙,人在退休前都是只会越来越忙,所以因为忙失去自己的生活,那就永远不会有自己的生活。

还有那么多书想要读,还有那么多事想要做。

所以还在学习怎样生活。

 

聚会这种东西,我们常常以忙为借口,来掩盖懒,懒是因为已经没有了新鲜的感觉,对人and/or对事。

其实不只是聚会,对大多事情我们都这样。

所以下一回,问我们什么时候BBQ,我说忙,就等于说,如果我们有时间,还是作些更有意义的事吧。

我的思维又跳跃了。

 

i really had a nice day, hope you enjoyed your day as well, no matter you were in my BBQ or somewhere else.

 

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每一次你走

 
 
去年,你走之后我哭了一个月。
 
人一旦适应了某种生活,某种生活中的人(们),就很难承受离别。
 
更何况那时候的我根本不知道自己以后是否还能再见到你。
 
我渐渐适应了没有你在身边的生活。
 
我快乐的生活,每天和你在网上联系,每天倒数着你回来看我的日子。
 
偶尔,你抱怨我party不回来和你说话。
 
偶尔,我抱怨聊天时你打盹。
 
每天,你都扬言来伦敦第一件事就是烧掉我‘丑恶’的睡衣。
 
每天,我都质问,你为什么总要把头剃的和‘劳改’一样。 (然后你说这样不用打发胶。)
 
当我再见到你的时候,忽然有一丝生疏感,我不知道手应该放在那里,嘴应该说些什么。
 
这一点不适,很快就没有了。你还是和以前一样。
 
总是喜欢走很多的路。 尝试不同的餐馆。 追着动物们照相,知道一切奇怪动物的名字和特征。
 
当我再次看你通过海关, 转身向我招手,我还是没有忍住眼泪。
  
在你来之前,我和导师安排开会时间,导师说,‘XX号他走,之后你还要哭三天,之后咱们在开会。 …  如果你们碰巧来到学校旁边,叫上来给我看看,我得帮你爸爸做质量检查。’ 我一直把这话当笑话给别人讲,结果还是被说中了。
  
 
 
这次的我应该是比上一次更有信心能够再次见到你吧。
 
但无论怎样,我也没有100%的把握。
 
如你所说,时间这个问题,会让人害怕。
 
如王菲唱,就像蝴蝶飞不过沧海,没有谁忍心责怪。
 
这样的经历和状态, 不止我们。
 
那些想太多的人,永远不会明白。 
 
寻一个自己喜欢的人难,还是等一个人难。
 
我有没有和你说过,自从认识你,我快乐了很多。
 
 

                 

 (感谢侯岳同学早年间的友情偷拍)
 
(同志们,需要组织活动来逃避现实了,腾出时间准备BBQ吧。)
 
 

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一封陌生女人的来信

 
dear,
 
do you know how peaceful i am now. i am listening to very clean piano music, having a cup of tea next to me and writing to u. let me tell you what i did yesterday.
 
i woke up with hungover this morning, checking your email as usual.
 
i went back home around 2am last night. drunk. i couldnt find my key when i was in front of the door, no light at all in the room.i called luca. the onlything i remember is that he said ‘Jesus, tina! not again, not twice in the same day…&*^%.’ he and arianna were out, maria’s phone was off. dont know if alex is in london or not. anissa, i dont have her number, so i wished myself goodluck and went to knock at the door and prepared go to find the house where luca is partying or call aris spend the night at his house. but i saw anissa’s angel face behind the door! so now i can have my tea and write you on my little bed.
 
we went to a place called social, 10.30pm, i went there with johnny couple of times. i drunk a kind of pear cider, and aris found it is damn disgusting. we danced together, or i should say we moved together with the music. aris has problem with dancing, and i have problem with singing, they thought i was drunk and forced me to sing happy birthday. we took silly pictures.
 
we walked on the street of london,10.00pm, heading to the club  we planned to go, we arrived and found the queue is increadible long, we discussed and decided to go to an other one. aris said he knows one near great poland street, it turned out to be a bar club i have been to a couple of times.
 
we met up in the heavy metal pub. 8.00pm, Fran, Theo and Felipo were there already and chatting with some other people, i though they were their friends’ so i went to greet by check kiss, and it turns out the guy just a random guy in the pub. later we all agree on that he is interested in Theo. Theo ordered 7 songs from the machine, and we were getting late for the club. the club we wanted to go is free of entering charge before 10.00pm.
 
i left home and met up with aris in the archway tube station. 7.30pm, we were going to meet others in a metal pub first and then the club. From the converstation with aris, i found out the club this time is not a latin dance one, so why the hell i changed to the skirt, with which you always want to make me turn in the field. i thought it would be a latin night, and there would be a lot of springs…
 
I arrived home very early in the afternoon, 4.00pm, and knocked at the door, anissa opened it for me. i lost my key, so i have make sure i arrive home before everyone is gone. i still kept the last hope that my key might be at home, although i asked luca and maria to look for already, they all give me negative answers. i coulnd find it. i did lost it this time. Xiaowei called me, and going to make a bedge with my name and number on it, in case one day i lost myself. got the message of the plan for tonight. said where and when to meet up and donot lose anyting on the way. i didnt notice, my new set of key is not in my bag when i went out…
 
i had lunch with colleagues in SOAS, 12.30pm, our favorate cafeteria in UCL is closed down. i was palying my coin wallet on my way to lunch and on my way back. my key is usually in side my coin wallet, but not after finished luch and arrived at the office. it disappeared! i went back to soas, tracked on the way. asked the reception, and office and people in the cafeteria. they are very nice people, they asked me if it is my house key, then they said they have a couple sleeping bags and if i have to sleep on the street maybe i can borrow one over the weekend… i still hold the hope i might found my key somewhere, but at the meantime. i begin to work on a new set of key. office one is read, and the homeone i have a spare key at home, my drawer key? i think i have to break my drawer, anyway it is not the first time. so that shouldnt be a problem.
 
morning, 8.30, it was friday morning, before i open my eyes i turned on my computer and before i crawl out of the bed, read u email. then i know i will free friday night, because you will on your way to your parent’s house when London night starts.      THUS, MY LUCKY DAY STARTED.
 
qin qin
XXX
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moment

来记记我的月记。每次有点写作冲动,不是太激进就是太颓废,引用别人的东西倒是很好使。
 
回想一下我充实的生活,我都干啥了? 每天两个skype,skype 比吃饭重要。周3学拉丁舞-搁浅了。 周四踢球-那真的是球踢我,不是我踢球。
 
大英博物馆的兵马俑展,我终于还是拖到了最后一天才去,6点就起来去排队,但还是被拒之门外,700张same day tickets, 1000人在排队。回来和我爸抱怨,我爸说:那东西,假的,真的哪能这么运来运去。在日本展览一个激进分子上来就打碎了一个,就陪了3***** (具体数字忘了)了事了。 我说:爸,不带你这么安慰人的。。。
 
和一个结婚狂朋友聊天,她一直给我描画电影中的唯美画面,
Y: 人家拿着钻戒说单膝下跪跟你说 will u marry me?
Y: 还有就是有个人站在那里说 now i pronounce u husband and wife…
Q: 求婚、庆典我没什么兴趣,穿着婚纱周游世界还不错, —-但是现实吗?
Y: 不是很现实唉,不过泥别穿长的,那种新潮迷你的很不错,还有可能
Q: 我也是这么想的!白色的婚纱短裙! 就是我还得练着穿着白色的高跟鞋跑,这个有点难度。。。
Y: 你可以去希腊海边举行婚礼!
Q: 哈哈,找个大鼻子给证婚啊?
 
以上纯属YY, 以上内容属于男士不宜,看了以后不要泛化到所有女生,大部分人不会有这么无理的念头的。
 
但是
希腊人的鼻子,真TM的大。
荷兰人的个子,真TM的高。
 
以后饭桌上有荷兰人,必然要穿高跟鞋,不然自带坂砖垫起来。
 
我最近还做什么了? 想起来在加进来吧。 把facebook上的照片贴上来给不用facebook 的朋友看看。
 
 

被球踢过以后, (每次必被我旁边的7号闷一脚)

 

 

(from flatmates)

 

 

(from colleagues)

 

 

(她们好辣,但是显得我好白!!!)

 

 

(我们家的猫,用外国人的话说,穿了袜套的,用中国人的话说,四蹄踏雪)

 

 

happy! happy! happy!

 

 

(我妈问:他怎么戳的这么用力啊?)

 

大家都很high

 

 

  

  (my flatmates, 少了个意大利女孩)

 

 

(这里面3个希腊的,实际的鼻子比照片里大多了!)

 

 

   

最后这个最有争议的。 争议啥就不用说了吧。

我好心的同事和我说,把facebook里面的tag拿掉吧,最好把照片都拿掉吧,你妈妈看见可不好。如果是kiss个男孩子没啥,但是女孩子,别人得怎么想啊。

我妈看了以后和我说,这个怎么了,你又不是亲个男生。再说让个漂亮小姑娘亲,亲亲就亲亲了。

总结:文化差异啊!!!

 

 

  (我和Xiao Jie 像吗?)

 

 

 o(>_<)o

 

Xiao Jie 家

 

 

(我家)

 

(我屋)

 

快乐双人照–全部是在我家厨房

日版pose     欧版pose

   

  

 

 
en fait, ce que je veux dire,  le même jour l’an dernier, j’ai rencontré une personne.
  

 

 

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‘How one chinese feel?’

 
 
 
A LETTER FROM AN ORDINARY CHINESE  (quote from internet)

When we were seen as "Sick Men from East Asia", we were called The Peril.
When we strived to get stronger, we are called The Threat.

When we closed our doors to the world, you forced them open with drugs and guns.
When we finally embraced Free Trade, you blame us for taking away your jobs.

When we were falling apart, you marched in your troops and robbed us blind.
When we put the broken pieces back together again, "Free Tibet" you screamed, it was an invasion!

So, we tried Communism, you hated us for being Communists.
Then we learned from Capitalism, you hated us for being Capitalists.

When we had a billion people, you said "The planet is starving."
So we tried to limit our population, you said it was Human Rights Abuse.

When we were poor, you think we are dogs.
When we loan you cash, you blame us for your debts.

When we build our industries, you blame us for global warming.
When we sell you goods you can afford, you blame us for dumping inferior products.

When we buy oil, you called that exploitation and assisting genocide.
When you fight for oil, you called that Liberation of Its People.

When we were lost in chaos and rampage, you wanted Rules of Law for us.
When we uphold our law and order against violence, you called that Violating Human Rights.

When we were silent, you said we have No Free Speech.
When we are NOW silent no more, you say we are merely "Brainwashed".

"Why do you hate us so much?" We asked.
"No" You answered, "We don’t hate you."
Truth is we really don’t hate you either, but do you understand us?
"Of course we do" You said, "We have BBC, CNN and AFPs."
So we ask you now "What do you really know and want from us?"
And "Why do you find it SO hard to accept us?"

 
 
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All the BBC reports about China are negative.  human mind is subjective, but as a media, being fair-minded is the basic moral principle.
 
Criticizing is not bad, but selectively reporting is bad.
 
BBC needs to be more professional. if a media can not be comprehensive, it equivalents to manipulating and lying.
 
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Youtube 上面有一个关于西藏的短片,值得一看。 奥运年注定了不会平静。如果台湾西藏不借助这个时间行动一把,那反而到出乎常理了。 意见是个主观的,所以每个人都会有偏见。前几天给某人讲了个‘拉手半年,不敢亲亲’的爱情故事,引发了对中国的文化,思想灌输,以及中国媒体言论自由问题的一系列讨论,让我很是郁闷。 我是典型的中立立场,真理是在一定的条件下才成立的。非要说对错,pointless.
 
我们都知道我们的国家在很多很多的地方都要努力改进。 powerapple 上某个帖子引用了“做正确的事&做事正确”, effective 和 efficent 的区别,要有正确的方向,在谈正确的方法。我们要一步一步的改进。有Reporters Without Borders类似组织不停的监督,想信有一天,中国媒体会做到和西方媒体一样的。是的,和西方媒体一样,但是并不是自由。绝对的自由是不存在的(托福听力一出现绝对字眼,那选项必错–新东方入门必备之常识)。 媒体是一种手段,宣传手段,手段是服务于其领导者的。为媒体的自由之争长期存在是因为媒体的绝对自由在现有机制下是无法实现的。(不要和我一个学交通的较真儿 什么是现有机制的定义) BBC 照样被manipulate,不同力量的冲突长期存在。需要承认的是,manipulate的程度(很)不同。
 
 
there is the video on youtube, it’s worth to have a look using proxy or whatever.
 
When other media talk about the media freedom issue in china, youtube delete comments under this video, and manipulates the number of hit the rate. (to prevent this video hits the top page)
 
the ‘facts’ we see are all filtered through media, and to different extent peronal emontion and bias has been added to the reports. again, there is nothing absolute, no absolute fair, no absolute free. the question is to what degree we can have.
 
about the video, dont want to say who is right who is wrong. i myself havent done the homework of Tibet’s history, so dont want to bark here. just quote some comments here.
 
‘most westerners are going to think chinese are brainwashed by chinese gov’t.’
‘I see it as a result of many years of indoctrination of the Chinese people. ‘
‘i can only look at the coments here as a lack of understanding, based on a lack of free media. fact is that the chinese people are kept from a free media and therefore cant see the real disaster. ‘
 
 
‘you just wasting your time doing this. talking about history to americans? they cant not locate their own country on the map. dont expect them to respect other countries’ history and culture… ‘
‘whenever ppl talk to me FREE TIBET…brabrabra..I always tell them, then all u europeans should leave us/ca/au/nz,coz these place are belong to natives, not ur cracker’s!!!CAN U GO BACK TO EUROPE???if u cant do that, then shut up, and leave us along.’
‘as i grew up,i realised how grey this world is,so is politics.
i wish we can all deal conflicting issues in the world with love and care…but maybe we will never be able to do that,we are pathetic human beings..
maybe it’s not a good way to justify the way we treat minority Chinese by saying,look,the europeans have done loads of terrible things,why just blame us!?’
 
 
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C’est tous les jours la Saint Valentin

 

Gros Bisous

Vous êtes loin
Mais cela n’a pas d’importance

 

 

Tous les jours,

 

 

Vous avez dit que je suis toujours heureuse,

Parce que je pense à toi tout le temps,

Peu importe où je suis 

 

  

 

 

 

 

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